Friday, July 31, 2009
Unexpected pleasures
Ever since landing, we have been together almost 24/7. We get up together, eat together, work together, and play together. No home or car repairs needing my attention. And work is a few thousand miles away. We have experienced a lot as a family and I am certain we are creating memories that will last a lifetime.
The kids are usually wiped out by the end of the day and often just drop. Below are a few pictures when Jon and Ellie didn't make it all the way to bedtime. In one picture, Jon collapsed on Rachel. In what I believe was a unanimous decision, the kids decided she is the friendliest person they ever met. In the other picture, Jon is snoozing with Beanie..
Thursday, July 30, 2009
God really is in control
Eventually I went over and put my hand out and he put his in mine. I asked his name again and he said Eddie. He told me he was eight. A few minutes later and older boy riding a bike with a cooler and snow cone maker on it rode up. Eddie went over to him. His name was Jefferson and he was 13. I asked if they were brothers and he said yes. So they just sat by the bike for a while watching our kids play. Eventually Steve kicked a soccer ball to Jefferson and he kicked it back. We began kicking the ball around together. Eddie started teasing his brother when he had the ball and laughing. Soon Eddie, Jon, Mallory and Ellie were hanging upside down on a bar laughing. Jefferson never strayed too far from his bike but had a great time anyway.
At some point I noticed some well dressed Ecuadorians walking with their children near us. They looked at us and then at the street kids as though they were in disbelief that we were playing with them. It made me sad but also proud. Sad because they are treated this way all the time. Proud because I didn't care what they thought and neither did my kids. Sadly, this was not the only group to look at us this way.
We ended up playing with them for at least an hour and a half. We had so much fun. I enjoyed watching them open up to us as they began to trust us. We invited them back to play with us on Sunday afternoon. Our friend Michelle is at the park every Sunday at 2:00 to meet with her street kids. We have been joining her and having a blast. She just loves on these kids as Jesus would. What fun it would be if they come back to see us.
So.....what started out to be a grumpy, dissapointing day because my plans were not working out turned into an amazing God filled day. Sometimes I have to let go of my control and let Him lead me. He really is in control.
Michelle
The Park
Ellie's blog
Pat and Carla: How is Parker doing?
Mushe: How are your kids doing? Great or not good?
Gail: How are the horsies doing and Dakota?
Grammy and BobBob: I miss you and I love you!
Oma and Opa: I love you and miss you!
Uncle Net: How are your kids doing? I love them and I miss them being here. I loved them staying here.
The end.
Ellie
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Child Survival Project
They help the mothers with pre-natal care, well-baby checkups and everything they need during the early years. They also keep records of growth and development, giving these children the best start they can. In addition to the physical care, they also work to educate the mothers. They are impacting an entire generation in this community.
They introduced us to 2 of the 3 ladies that are the backbone of this ministry. They are the ones that travel from house to house, by whatever means possible, to build relationships and love on these women and children. It is great to talk about the programs, successes and all the numbers, but this is where the blood, sweat and tears are. The one-on-one interactions with the young women in this community are where it all happens.
While listening to all this, I was reminded of the Pregnancy Support Center back home. It is a great organization with lots of terrific programs, but it is in the counseling room and classroom where the rubber meets the road. It is in these trenches that the battle is won or lost.
To build on this thought, isn't this true for our churches too? We can have fancy buildings, rockin bands and mind-bending sermons, but in the end this is not what matters. Because church is really not about buildings and stuff. The church is really about me and you, representing Christ and penetrating our world. And it is in our relationships that God must be proclaimed.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Josselyn
We got on the bus in the morning and drove to the park. When we turned into the parking lot we could see a group of people looking at us with the same anticipation and excitement that we were looking at them with. Once parked we quickly got out and made our way to them. There were lots of people and on the way I told Steve that the most recent picture we had of Josselyn was probably three years old. I was worried that we would not know who she was. As we got closer I could see a beautiful girl with big brown eyes and long wavy black hair. She and I locked eyes and I knew it was her. When we were close enough I said "Josselyn?" She shook her head yes shyly. I embraced her tightly and began sobbing. I could hardly wrap my mind around the fact that she was here in my arms. We introduced ourselves to Josselyn, her mother Lillian, the director of her Compassion project, Rosio and our translator, Polly. We gave Josselyn a bookbag with some gifts and she gave us a letter and picture she had drawn. Then we were off to the paddle boats.
Josselyn is 11 years old. She was a little shy at first. It took Mallory about ten minutes to cure her of that. They were holding hands walking through the park in no time. We all went on the paddle boats. Polly, Josselyn, Mallory and I were on one. It was so fun to watch Josselyn open up on the ride. She and Mallory switched seats with Polly and I so that they could pedal. They both laughed as we carefully maneuvered over the seats. It was Josselyn's first time on a boat. We raced the other boats with our friends and families on them.
Then we went and played on the swings and slides. All of our kids had a ball and treated Josselyn like a part of our family. After that the ladies went to the flower gardens. Rosio and Lillian pointed out plants in the greenhouses and gardens that grow where they live in Santa Domingo. Mallory and Josselyn took some beautiful pictures there.
We ate KFC for lunch near the paddleboats with the rest of the group and their Compassion kids. Lillian and I were able to talk and ask each other questions. Finding out some of the details of their life was something I wanted to do for a long time. I'm glad that I did but it made me sad for them......I will keep praying for them but now I can be more specific. I asked Polly if Josselyn knew who from our family was coming. She said Josselyn thought it was only me. She said Josselyn saw me right away and told her, "that is her in the pink shirt!" When she saw Steve and the kids she said, "that is them - did she bring her whole family?" I love that she was surprised.
Then we all got on the bus to go to the Teleferico. This is the cable car that goes up Pichincha mountain. We went from about 9,500 feet in Quito to about 13,000 feet at the top. I am afraid of heights and didn't really want to go. Josselyn and her mom both wanted to go so I decided that I didn't want to miss out on it. It was amazing. I can't even do justice in describing the view. Looking over God's creation that way was very special. Josselyn, Mallory and Ellie had so much fun together.
After that it was time to part ways. We had to get on one bus and Josselyn on the other. It was so incredibly hard to say goodbye. I so wanted to take her with us. Josselyn and her mother thanked us. We all hugged for a long time. Then Josselyn told me that now she has a second mother. So I cried - okay I was already crying - so I cried harder! Their gratitude was so apparent. It made my heart happy. So we parted ways and I was wondering if we would ever see her face to face again. I was filled with hope for her future. Her mother seemed loving and caring and full of faith. She is in a project where she has some of her basic needs met but more importantly her relationship with Jesus is nurtured. Simply amazing.
Michelle
Open letter to our CRM team
We experienced some great stuff last week. But now that you have returned to "normal" life, what do you do with those images and emotions that are fresh in your memories? Before the busyness of life and the priorities of our culture seek to wipe them out, I want to share the following with you:
"Will we stay where we are, do what we've done, and continue to repeat the mistakes of our past? Will we emerge in rebellion, recklessly abandoning the historic moors of our faith in our obstinate determination to drain freedom's cup to its last? Or will we emerge from stagnant religious routine to embrace, in living color and vibrant love, the Holy God of Scripture, and His ancient, eternal truth?" (from The Bravehearted Gospel by Eric Ludy)
Romans 12:9-16 reads like this:
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.
Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.
Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.
Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.
Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.
Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
We were very privileged to see God at work like we did. That was an incredible opportunity and we must capitalize on it. Don't let yourself fall back into any negative habits or routines. "Hate what is evil; cling to what is good." Eradicate the junk in your life. Seek out that which is good and cling to it like a shipwreck survivor to a lifeboat. That whole section from Romans is full of commands. Directives that we need to internalize and build our lives around. Actions that we must take.
Verse 11 really jumped out at me: Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. God showed us some amazing things, but now it is up to us to keep the zeal and spiritual fervor that He stirred up in us.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Sad Goodbyes
This week was pretty crazy with all the activities and we are looking forward to a couple slower days so we can get caught up. We will be posting more stories and pictures from the week, but for now I will just share our group shot with some of the school staff at the end of the parenting workshop.
Saturday, July 25, 2009
The Dump and Compassion Day
As we walked over to the dump I was amazed and ready to meet some people that needed help. We walked up some stairs and stood on a raised platform and watched them like they were entertainment. We just sat there and watched them like a tour of the place. I thought in my head when I was in Harry London Chocolate Factory we did the exact same thing. I thought in my head that the man that worked there was saying "and here is our garbage dump and these are our hard workers." I wanted sooooo badly to go down and just shake one of there hands. But sadly we weren't allowed to take pictures. But it's okay cause you have to actually be there to really experience it.
Compassion Day was also awesome we got to meet our compassion child, Josselyn. We played at the park in the middle of town. We got ice cream, went paddle boating and the girls went to the flower garden. After we went to Teleferico, the cable car in Quito.We got some awesome pics and had a blast. There's an amusement park at the bottom with some rides and games. But the hardest part of the day was saying good bye:( It was so hard. And yes, that day, I really, I truly, I promise you, I ATE GUINEA PIG!
Friday, July 24, 2009
God is Everywhere
We took the kids to the Teleforico, which is the place where you can take cable cars up the hill (or should I say, mountain) and there's also an amusement park there. The ride in the cable car was a ton of fun and a little nerve racking. When we got to the top, the view was incredible. We were so close to the clouds I could almost touch them. As I was walking around, I looked down a little ravine and saw a church. It was very small and had very intricate stained glass windows. I saw a sign that said there was a mass held every Saturday. A little church up in the mountains of Ecuador. Another example of how God is everywhere. Today is our VBS. Pray that everything goes well.
Kathleen
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Chinese Food In Ecuador?
Anyway, back to my discoveries. Second, almost every resturant we've gone to has homemade hot sauce. I think they call it ahi. It's probably not spelled right but that's what it sounds like. Well, this hot sauce is amazing. I've been putting it on everything. Third, Chinese food tastes kind of strange in Ecuador. It was very weird listening to Asians talking in Spanish to us. It wasn't bad food, I just felt like it was kind of out of place.
For my final food discovery, I would like to dedicate the next few lines to Arenas, the bakery next to our apartment. Ecuador has some of the best bread I've ever had. It's always fresh and hot. The rolls are fluffy pillows of goodness and the arapes, which are a type of pastry are amazing. When I go up on the roof in the morning I can smell the bread baking. I'm still trying to figure out how I can get some bread past cutsoms when we leave...
All in all, the food here is great. I think what I'm most grateful about is that I haven't gotten sick from any of it! Trust me, the first day we were here I ate some questionable meat products. I literally didn't know what the some of things on my plate were. But they were good! Anyway, I hope I've been able to educate you on the foodie ways of Ecuador. Keep eating!
Kathleen
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
New Experiences
After we played with the kids we went to see the dump itself. It wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be, but it still was really bad, if that makes sense. Dump trucks would bring loads of trash into this big area. It looked like a big warehouse without walls, just a roof. They would dump pile after pile and workers would sort through them. Plastic, carboard and metal would go into different piles and would be then be carried away to be compacted. Everyone's demeanor changed when we got there. None of the workers had any expression. They just did their jobs and didn't acknowledge us. I saw one man pick up a pair of jeans from one of the piles and see if they fit him. I still can't get over it. Nobody really said anything as we left. It seemed like we were all in a daze from what we had just seen. I'm really glad I went. I feel like for the first time I know why I went on this trip. It's not about me. It's all for them.
Kathleen
Child Survival Project
Thanks for praying,
Elizabeth
Sacrifices
Kathleen
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Compassion Project
LDP,CSP, HIL
1> LDP is a program that Compassion Kids go into as they get older to get stronger education and things like that. We got to meet a few kids over dinner from LPD. We went to Extreme Response and had some Dominos Pizza. And I will tell you one thing that when you stay here for 4 weeks with not a slice of American food, it tastes really good to have some good ol' Domino's.
2>CSP is the Child Survival Project. This is for young kids. So basically kids can't get into Compassion until they are about 4 years old, and people we figuring out that a lot of kids weren't making it until they were old enough. So those "people" started Child Survival Project.
3>HIL is my version of HILL because I needed some more three letters to make the title sound good. I put hill because we went to a hill with a very awkward statue on top. When we got there I noticed what it was. It was a statue of Mary stepping on the devil's head. It was very awkward and I needed more stuff to write about. So there it is hope you like. If you read this please comment so I know how many people are actually reading. Thanks!
Matt
Monday, July 20, 2009
A recap of the first few days in Ecuador
Sunday morning we went to church, it was an amazing time of worship, the message was a little hard to understand due to translation, but the music brought tears to my eyes, it was so genuine and different from anything in the States. We went to the mall for lunch, all i can say is that pizza hut never tasted better, sometimes little reminders of home are what you need! We then went to the park and played with some street kids, went to the market and then went to dinner. Once we got back to the house and the kids were asleep, Kathleen Elizabeth Aunt Michelle and I stayed up and talked for 3 hours!
Today we painted at the school and played soccer with the kids. It was great to get to meet some of the neighborhood kids and play with them. Let me just say that these kids are AMAZING at soccer and their young too!
Below is a picture of me with a little boy named Jimmy who I met at the school!
Much Love
Hannah
Soccer, Eric, and Pick Axes
Kathleen
Playing with Street Kids
Sunday, July 19, 2009
First Night!
Kathleen
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Tires
Friday, July 17, 2009
Unrest
Well, I could not get any peace with that line of thinking and the time was drawing near, so we decided to pay it right away. If this trip was His will, He would work out the finances. But instead of being assured that we made the right decision, my unrest got worse. Whenever I tried to sort this out in my head, it was absolutely unbearable. It was as intense as getting too close to a roaring bonfire. I thought I might actually burst into flames. One day I was driving on the highway and I had to stop thinking about it because I thought I would crash. It was downright terrifying.
Finally, I cried out (more like yelled) "What is it, God? What am I missing here? I am trying to do the right thing, but things are getting worse!" Then it came to me. As a direct result of my actions, the amount of my debt was exactly double what I had originally remembered. This was really great. We are already planning on exhausting our entire savings account and suddenly this thing just doubled. But I now had great clarity. I called on Him and He answered. So I said "OK. Double it is." At that very moment I got a sense of peace like I have never known. Like a wave, it came over me from the top of my head to the tips of my toes. It was one of the most powerful things I have ever felt in my life.
Right after this, I received the list of donations from our supporters and we were blown away. The financial issues were gone.
Extol Him
I will extol the LORD at all times;
His praise will always be on my lips.
My soul will boast in the LORD;
let the afflicted hear and rejoice.
The way I read this, when God is moving in my world I need to tell somebody. My very core must be proclaiming His name and bragging about what He has done. And, yes, many may think I am nuts because they don't understand. But when my words reach the person that has lost all hope, it will be exactly what they need. And they will be blessed, simply because I have shared what God is doing in my life.
It continues in verse 3:
Glorify the LORD with me;
let us exalt His name together.
To me that is a clear call to grab a brother or sister and make sure the folks in your world know how you roll. Will you join me?
Things are looking up...
Michelle
Cars
1>Half of them aren't even cars. There are more dirtbikes than there are cars. No motorcycles just dirtbikes.We saw a whole family once on A dirtbike. Here's how the order went from front to back. BABY son, Dad, Baby daughter, Mom. It was awsome.
2>The law doesn't state that you have to buckle. Since I've been in Ecuador I haven't touched a seat belt.
3>Seats can be backwards in a car. In one of Cesar's vans he has backwards seats.
4> People are allowed to pile in the back of pick-up trucks. There was a garbage truck, no bigger nor smaller than any of ours at home, had a guy on top of it holding down a tarp becuase it was raining. It was one of thase automatic trucks that are made to pick up dumpsters with the arms that lift it into the top. That's where the guy was holding it just flying down the road like he was surfing.
5>EVERY SINGLE CAR IS STICK SHIFT.
In conclusion to Ecuadorian cars I believe that these people are better driver's than my dad. These dudes could drive Nascar in their sleep. We all really feel safe not buclking in taxis becuase they are such good drivers.
P.S. Adam is felling better after being sick for a week. Also If any of my cousins are reading this, The Finley girls, I have finally figured out where you are going to sleep but you'll have to wait 'til you get here to find out where!?!?!?!?!? HA!
Monday, July 13, 2009
Ministering to street kids
On the surface it may look like playing with kids in the park, but it is way more complicated than that. Michelle doesn't believe in playing it safe. She is out there on her own in some rough areas, making sure these precious children know that Jesus loves them. If you would like to get behind some street-level ministry to children that may have no other chance to know the Love of Christ, it would be my privilege to make the introduction. She is the real deal.
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Holy Hill
This morning I was sitting on the roof reading Psalm 15:
Lord, who may dwell in your sanctury?
Who may live on your holy hill?
The rest of the Psalm lists the characteristics of such a man, then finishes:
He who does these things will never be shaken.
So I am reading that and saying "Yeah, that's what I want. Not to simply visit ocassionally, but to dwell in the presence of God, on His Holy Hill." Then I looked up to see this. Wow. Ever since I set foot in Quito I have longed to climb to the top, but this put a whole new perspective on it.
But then I noticed something else. On the left side there is a cable car known as the Teleferico. This contraption takes you to the top in about 8 minutes. It would probably take me all day to climb to the top, but this thing will wisk me there in minutes. Is this what my faith looks like sometimes? Do I want to take shortcuts and expect results, instead of spending the time that I know I should in prayer and study? Am I willing to do the hard work of growing my relationship with Him or am I looking for the easy way?
Saturday, July 11, 2009
TreeHouse Kidz touching lives in Ecuador
The kids from TreeHouse Kidz (the children's ministry at RiverTree) have been collecting money to help the kids at Nuevos Amigos. We were able to use this money to purchase some books and puzzles that will go into the classrooms. The kids absolutely love books and they were very excited to receive them. Here is a short video of the occasion.
Way to go TreeHouse Kidz! Because of the money you earned and collected, these kids have some great new books to enjoy. Awesome job!